Sacrifise

We work hard on fulfilling our dreams.





How much am i willing to sacrifise for my dreams and desires?

Family

In human context, a family (from Latin: familiare) is a group of people affiliated by consanguinity, affinity, or co-residence. In most societies it is the principal institution for the socialization of children. Extended from the human "family unit" by biological-cultural affinity, marriage, economy, culture, tradition, honor, and friendship are concepts of family that are physical and metaphorical, or that grow increasingly inclusive extending to community, village, city, region, nationhood, global village and humanism. A family group consisting of a father, mother and their children is called a nuclear family. This term can be contrasted with an extended family.

There are also concepts of family that break with tradition within particular societies, or those that are transplanted via migration to flourish or else cease within their new societies. As a unit of socialization and a basic institution key to the structure of society, the family is the object of analysis for sociologists of the family. Genealogy is a field which aims to trace family lineages through history. In science, the term "family" has come to be used as a means to classify groups of objects as being closely and exclusively related. In the study of animals it has been found that many species form groups that have similarities to human "family"—often called "packs."

Well.this is the definition from wikipedia.i dont understand a thing what it's explaining.

Me,myself,Lim Ying Chien thinks that family should be a place where you can count on them.Where they will support you no matter what.and btw.How does this family concept works in my life?

Im so confused.

the way my dad phrase a family its like everyone have to sacrifise for him instead of HIM sacrifising for us.I mean fine la we spend time with him and everything.but then its like he cant even give us anything.if i needed something such as amplfier for my guitar.a 400 bucks amp.I dont even dare to ask from him.Nor asking my mom.I know they're having their hard time.But i needed them.So am i suppose to buy it myself?but they dont even give my pocket money on time or whatever bla bla bla.

Who am i to judge my own parents

My dad blame my mom for this family breakdown and my mom the other way round.i guess you can imagine how is it right?Okay.Does Normal Family Querrel All The Time?I mean by all the time as in Everyday.LOL.My dad say it was normal.But when i see my childhood friend,bestfriend,their parents aint that way.

So where and whos the problem?

The reason my mom left my dad is because 1st.Economicly my dad cant support this family.2nd.tho he cant support this family my mom said is okay she can but all the quarrel are stressing her and she thinks it may cause her caner to 'come back'.3rd.All the quarreling is because of religion.To be frank.i dont think there's any problem with this religion but i dont know why my dad can make it such big deal.OKAY.It maybe a problem cause my mom will be waking up at 5am and start meditating till 7 or 8 am like that.

BUT BUT BUT THATS EVEN HARMFUL OR WHO THE HELL KNOWS WHY MY DAD IS FREAKING OUT.

Well i guess everything is too late d?My mom wont pick this house anymore.

May God Bless Us :)